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Do Relationships Kill Freedom?
Secretly, I used to resent being in a relationship. It wasn't something I was super aware of. It was more of a niggling anxiety that showed up whenever things got tough - during arguments, or when my own wants and needs contradicted those of my partner. It was based...

Hacking Masculinity: 8 More Awesome Hacks From Women
You know the score by now. The intention of Hacking Masculinity is to positively influence culture by shifting the way we think and speak about men and masculinity. Continuing on from our last edition, part 4 features another eight high-calibre women answering the...

The Slippery Slope of Sexual Consent (part 2)
So let’s talk consent. What is it, what isn’t it, and how can we all step up to make sure we’re practicing ‘good’ consent?

The Slippery Slope of Sexual Consent (part 1)
We teach some pretty whack things when it comes to sex, sexuality and sexual consent. Some of which might actually seem harmless – but is it? How are we all, as men AND women contributing to ‘rape culture’? And what does empowered consent actually look like?

Hacking Masculinity: 9 Awesome Hacks From Women
In this very special third round of Hacking Masculinity, we asked nine women to weigh in and share their #1 masculinity hack to help men be awesome.

Why Toys, Whips & Fancy Positions Aren’t Always The Answer (and what our vanilla sex life actually looks like)
Think your sex life’s boring? Maybe you’ve been looking at it the wrong way. If vanilla is your favourite flavour, here’s a myth you need to know about.

Are Your 2017 Goals Making You Hate Yourself?
It’s that time of the year when we’re all looking forward. Hoping, striving, planning for the year that we do it all. Get that promotion. Write that book. Lose the 10 pounds. Run the marathon. Find love. And I’m just as caught up in the fresh energy as the next person.
But can your shiny goals and New Year’s Resolutions be doing more harm than good? What can you do to make sure you actually rock it this year?

We’re a Couple in a Relationship With Depression – Here’s What No-One is Talking About
Depression and anxiety will affect most relationships at some point. This is a deeply personal account of our challenges and how we’re moving through them.

6 Ways to Fight Right When You’re On Holidays
Our recent getaway to Thailand didn’t go exactly as planned. Yep, we ended up fighting.
Whilst fighting on your holiday might seem like the last thing you’d wish upon your relationship, it can actually be a good thing.
Get these 6 tips on how to fight fair on holidays.

The (No) Shame of Low Libido
The other morning, Reece tried to initiate sex. It didn't go so well. We'd both been working so hard lately, and I saw it for the beautiful attempt at connection and closeness that it was. In theory, I was open to it. But in the flesh, it was a different story. He...