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Hacking Masculinity: 8 More Awesome Hacks From Women
You know the score by now. The intention of Hacking Masculinity is to positively influence culture by shifting the way we think and speak about men and masculinity. Continuing on from our last edition, part 4 features another eight high-calibre women answering the...
The Slippery Slope of Sexual Consent (part 2)
So let’s talk consent. What is it, what isn’t it, and how can we all step up to make sure we’re practicing ‘good’ consent?
The Slippery Slope of Sexual Consent (part 1)
We teach some pretty whack things when it comes to sex, sexuality and sexual consent. Some of which might actually seem harmless – but is it? How are we all, as men AND women contributing to ‘rape culture’? And what does empowered consent actually look like?
Hacking Masculinity: 9 Awesome Hacks From Women
In this very special third round of Hacking Masculinity, we asked nine women to weigh in and share their #1 masculinity hack to help men be awesome.
Why Toys, Whips & Fancy Positions Aren’t Always The Answer (and what our vanilla sex life actually looks like)
Think your sex life’s boring? Maybe you’ve been looking at it the wrong way. If vanilla is your favourite flavour, here’s a myth you need to know about.
The (No) Shame of Low Libido
The other morning, Reece tried to initiate sex. It didn't go so well. We'd both been working so hard lately, and I saw it for the beautiful attempt at connection and closeness that it was. In theory, I was open to it. But in the flesh, it was a different story. He...
Hacking Masculinity: 12 More Hacks for Awesome Men
After the overwhelming response to vol. 1, we asked another 12 masculinity experts to answer the question ‘What’s your #1 hack to help men be awesome?’
Hacking Masculinity: 12 Hacks to Help Men Be Awesome
No doubt about it. There’s a new breed of men making their mark upon the world today. Men who are rising from the ashes of the macho alpha-male jerk and the sensitive new-age nice-guy. Men burning the rulebook of what it means to be a man, smashing the stereotypes and...
The Awkward Sex of a Sex Coach
Last night I had awkward sex Part of me doesn't want to tell you about it. I'm a sex coach after all, and I'm supposed to be having amazing sex every single minute of my life, right? Well, some days that's true. But last night, it was awkward. Really awkward. And I'd...
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9 Tips for Enjoying Oral Sex [For Her] Get Out of Your Head & Into Your Pleasure
It's OK – you're not the only one who finds it a little awkward. Having your partner go down on you can be really challenging. You would think that receiving the delicious pleasure of your partner's tongue on your delicate folds would be easy, right? Not always....